time for an I Like list! Thanks for coming by, and on with the show...
above is a little painting I did this week, like a paint doodle. No goal in mind. I love colors, all of them
we had more normal weather this week, really cold and lots of snow, none predicted. We still toss out veggie peels, for any critters. They don't hibernate here since temps can be 60F one day, then drop that afternoon below 0 . I saw my bunny and squirrel this week on our porch. So sweet, he tried to dig down into the old mums pots. Then later when I checked the front door was locked before I went to bed, I peeked out to see it snowing, and a raccoon was sitting by the street drain looking in. Oh no, I thought, it's so cold and snowy, and he has to find food. Poor critters all around us.they don't look good but we ate them |
reading
listening to on audio
mysterious family drama with possibility of ghosts. Great reader.Oh la la!
want this
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prompt: do you give yourself the same compassion and understanding that you give to your family and friends?
I'd say no although the older I get the less I need to please people I don't know. Growing up I was picked apart for being slightly chubby when the other kids were all skinny. I felt like I was not good enough and often pointed out my faults before others could say them.
My family was not nurturing, no compliments or "I love you" s The mother was a bully too and her opinion was the only one so I was quiet at home too. I am trying to change the automatic self talk now, (finally!) and tell myself, what I'd say to a friend, like that's clever! You can't do it all! It's okay to do nothing! You are a good person creative and have integrity. I believe in respect and that differences are great, so I might as well say that to me, right?
found this on short videos....
people judging you? finding fault? listen to this way to view it
I LOVE new clothes, and sales on clothes, so I now have this roomy boucle cream colored sweater by Anne Klein at macy's on deep discount... I have one in pink and now this, and feel cozy and cute in it! it has sparkles in the wool too.