Day four of love songs...
When I first saw my now husband, we were at a conta dance (my first) and as I saw him coming down the row the room blurred and his face was in focus, just for a moment. My spirit guides wanted to make sure I didn't miss this!
I had loved and lost and was tired... I had just decided to stop the search for a life partner... but then said to myself,
"maybe one more..."
timing is important... I believe if I hadn't gone through heartache and learned it was better to be on my own than with the wrong person I might have missed him. I believe if I hadn't written a list of what I wanted in a mate, I might have been sidetracked.
I was a complicated, talented, funny, accomplished woman in her 30's who didn't look like Barbie.
They say do things you love and the ones you meet will fit your life better. I guess that's true, but also it takes courage to try again, to risk loss.
Then after the I do's life throws rocks at you, and you learn to dodge them while holding a hand, or if a rock hits you there is someone to kiss it better...
what would you tell your younger self if you could go back?
my advice would be don't try to look like agnetha from abba, it ends in a disaster ;O)
ReplyDeletethanks for the song, it is something what makes our heart sing&swing ;O)
My advice to my younger self - take a risk!
ReplyDeleteTony Bennett...now there's a song master.
ReplyDeleteSo many good songs you are picking!
ReplyDeleteTo my younger self: keep your faith in God, redeem yourself back to before you lost it, and wait on The Lord.
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